We all want to feel like we matter. We all want to be seen and have our contributions perceived as having Value in the world. 

So what can we do when we feel under-appreciated or that our work isn’t being valued like we think it should? 

How do we let go of the praise we crave when the kudos eludes us? 

Here’s a tough truth- If you don’t feel valued by someone in your life, it might not be about them. It might be about you. 

If you feel under appreciated, it might be time to look at how you Vibrate your Value. 

What does it mean to Vibrate your Value? 

We are all energy- you, me every living thing vibrates energy. And we pick up on each others energy all the time. 

It doesn’t matter so much what words you use, what you wear or even you tone or body language. We are all reacting to each others energy. 

So when you walk into a room or log onto Zoom are you truly Vibrating your Value? 

In a job interview- Are you putting out “ I hope you hire me” vibrations? Or “I would be a great addition to your team” vibrations? 

On a first date-is your energy more “please like me” or “you would be fortunate to know me?”

When giving a speech, writing a blog post or putting your creative work out into the world. Is it “ I hope Im’ good enough” or “I know this work has value and it will resonate with someone.” 

We all deal with Imposter Syndrome- every one of us. it is just our brains way of trying to keep us safe by keeping us from changing. 

However, the field of Neuroplasticity has shown us that we can change our brains-and change our lives. 

Just keep working on Vibrating your Value. 

And then once you are secure in your value- even if you don’t get the job, the date is a bust or your creative work gets rejected, you will know they were just not a vibrational match for your value. 

Do not let them define you. You define you. You just keep on Vibrating your Value. 

And you will find your people. 

Your life will change for the better when you change your vibration. 

When you learn to Vibrate your true value you will be led to the people who truly appreciate you ad the work you do in the world. 

Opportunities will appear. Circumstances will change. Doors will open. 

Just work on Vibrating your Value. 

And your life will rise up to meet you.