It’s your job to design it.
If you can design your dream life, you can live your dream life.
As you begin to get comfortable with the idea that you actually do know what you want, focusing on changing your life can still seem so overwhelming.
There are so many choices, so many directions to go, so much you want to improve.
However, real change happens by not just changing one part of your life.
Real change happens when you do the work to design a whole new you.
And just like designing anything, it is helpful to begin with a plan.
Here is a simple guide to follow as you design what your want your life to look like.
Break down your wants into these 5 areas:
Home. Health. Wealth. Love. Give.
If you are able to describe in detail what you want in all 5 of these areas, then you have taken the first step toward designing a new life.
So put away the judgement and the limiting thoughts. Get out of your head and into your heart. Allow yourself to dream and really know.
Home- city or country? yard or condo? alone or with loved ones?
Health- what would your perfect physical/ mental health look like?
Wealth- how will money come to you? what will you do? How much do you want?
Love- Who is your tribe? Friends? Partner? Pets? Family-biological or chosen?
Give- how you share your innate gifts with the world. what impact do you want to make? how will you help to heal the world?
Use these 5 areas as journal prompts. Write them down. Do it daily.
As you do this work, listen for that little voice telling you that this is silly- to face reality. You can’t have that. how will it happen? I don’t deserve it? I should be happy with what I have?
When you hear these doubts and limitations, keep going. Tell them to quiet down and not worry. You got this. Remember you do know what you want.
This is Big Work. You are rewiring your brain and overcoming years of subconscious programming.
So be kind and gentle with yourself.
And give yourself permission to Dream.
Because if you can Design your Dream life, you are well on your way to living your dream life.